Disturbing Glimpses of Life Inside a Polygamist Compound
Where do you even start on a story like this? What’s going on in a small part of West Texas is disturbing and fascinating. It’s a small glimpse into a life most of us can hardly imagine.
It began with a phone call. Texas Child Protective Services said it received two phone calls last week from a 16-year-old girl, who claimed to live at a polygamist compound outside Eldorado, Texas. She said she’d been forced to marry a 50-year-old man when she was 15 and also bore him a child.
Police and CPS arrived at the compound and began investigating last Thursday night. Over the next few days, they pulled 400 children out and more than one hundred adult mothers followed. Bus after bus streamed into Eldorado, and then to San Angelo, which is 45 minutes north.
At the daily press briefings each afternoon, CPS kept adding more children to the list. Where were they coming from? Had they been hidden? These are question CPS says it can’t answer for us — yet.
The few glimpses we’ve gotten of the children are enough to break your heart. Some of them are tiny, precious. Probably many of them have never been off the compound. All the young women are wearing similar long, old-fashioned dresses in pastel colors and they all have their hair styled in much the same way
As I watched them load onto buses, I was reminded of the time when I covered the fatal shootings of Amish school children in Nickel Mines, Pennsylvania. I remember thinking then, what does a community that doesn’t watch TV and can’t possibly understand the 24/7 news cycle, think when a few hundred reporters and sat trucks and cameras descend on their little community? That feeling must be even more extreme for children who’ve just left their homes and family. Community members who helped transport the children from the compound said they sang the whole way.
And yet, if what is suspected to be going on in the compound — that girls are forced into marriage and abused — if those allegations are proven, what else could be done BUT to take them to safety? There have long been critics who say authorities in Arizona and Utah have been too slow to act against abuses in those states by this same polygamist sect.
As it stands, CPS can’t tells us if they have found the girl who made those phone calls last week. She may be among the 401 children, or she may be still on the compound. Is she scared? Has something happened? Police and CPS workers continue their search.
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What I would like to know is why they don’t remove the men from the compound? The men are already “breaking the law” by being married to multiple women. Additionally, there are fewer men on the compound than women and children. The children should have been left with their mother’s. The action the police chose to take makes no sense to me. Now there are 400 children who are permanently scarred and traumatized from being separated from their mothers and thrown into a society they know nothing about. Most of them probably don’t know why. The best interest of the children does not seem to really be considered. We already have thousands of children in the already broken foster care system… this was not necessary. Take the men. Leave the children with their mothers. (they could still perform the DNA testing if the children are with thier mothers)…
What am I missing?
What worries me is that there are so few facts, but lots of questions. A 16 year old telephones to report rape, and it turns out she is from Colorado Springs, Colorado and not El Dorado, TX? An insider (name withheld to protect whom?) has been working with Schleicher County law enforcement for four years? Schleicher County is out in the middle of nowhere and they had nothing more pressing to do, so why did it take them 4 years? There are 130 children under the age of 3? That means 130 children were born while the investigation was going on? Aren’t we just a little concerned that, with no proof and no actual complainant, that a blanket search warrant was issued which resulted in no arrests (for abuse), but 416 children taken from their homes? What is the exact reason for DNA testing everyone? Is this routine practice in the case of every suspected underage pregnancy? Is it done before or after every abortion given to an underage girl? What is done to the multitude of fathers represented by the astounding number of teen pregnancies in the real world? Do we even know who they are most of the time? When we don’t, do we routinely DNA test all likely suspects? Don’t we want to be fair and balanced? Then where are the statistics on teen pregnancy for the rest of the country? How are we holding all the fathers accountable? Did law enforcement identify the fathers in the case of those two 14 year old girls who gave birth on an airplane on junior high field trips? Is it true that 40% of all births in this country are to unwed mothers?
I have 4 concerns:
1) That this religious sect is being held to a different standard than the rest of the country
2) That child abuse allegations are being held out as the primary focus of the investigation, and yet law enforcement is on a major fishing expedition to locate both victims and criminals
3) That due process is not being accomplished by prosecuting en masse
4) That all of our children are at high risk for physical and sexual abuse, but only the high profile cases draw attention
I wish someone could reassure me that what these people are alleged to have done is worse that what is done in neighborhoods all over America, but I’m very much afraid that we are looking into a mirror. After all, the only difference is why they did what they did, not what. They named it “spiritual marriage” and cloaked it with religion, but it is still unwed pregnancies in the eyes of the law. That there may be underage pregnancies is still to be proven. I believe that when all is said and done, we may have more men in prison, more fragmented families, more disturbed children, and we will not have fixed what is really broken, which is that we, as a nation, are lacking a clear vision of what is right and wrong and the commitment to live by it.
This is true. Any society that treats the female gender without equality and respect will never succeed. They are doomed to failure. Throughout human history this has repeated itself. No good man that is whole, confident and has self-respect would ever join a cult and rape little girls. Any polygomist is not only the most evil pedophile(you should all be shot DEAD) but is abusive and robber of childhood and life should be tried and convicted once the DNA evidence proves them to be as dispicable as they are. My heart aches for the baby girls, the lost wonderful boys and the brainwashed moms, the digarded aging women and total undeniable hatred for those pathetic men who could obviously NEVER make in American society and had to crawl like a predatory insect into the polygamy bullsh**t. Waiting for Armegeddon???? Get ready because there is entire ward at
the texas prison just waiting to introduce the batch of you child rapers to Armegeddon.
No where can I find out how many adult men how many adult women were on the compound. Can you help with a answer?
Thanks Dave
Lori,
Also, unlike this sect, the Amish are a very open people. They live, shop, and work among those who are not Amish. They don’t isolate themselves in the desert and put walls around their communities. I have visited the Amish communities in Ohio, I have seen how they live, how they work, and how they play. I have no suspicions of them because they do not hide. I actually have a great respect for them, they have lived their lives they way they choose, and they have done it openly and within the confines of the law of the land. Human nature tells us that when someone works very hard to hide something, then that something must be wrong. In the case of the YFZ compound, the wrongs they were hiding were the abuses of children. Abuse comes in many forms, not just physical. Saying that the children looked healthy doesn’t mean that some of them were not being abused. Long sleeves and long skirts can hide alot of bruises and mental, emotional, or sexual abuse takes the caring work of trained professionals before it can be seen. Having seen the interviews of a few of the women from the compound, I can’t help but wonder if they’ve ever had a mind of their own. They looked so empty, like mindless forms just sitting there. They were almost robotic. How very sad for them. Children have a way of adapting, and the younger ones may have only a dim memory of this very stressful time. But the women that went back to the ranch, what will happen to them? If this place is closed, what kind of chance do these women have of being able to live in the “outside world?”
It is disturbing to me that the news reports keep saying that most of the children found at the compound and removed were girls. It reminds me of trips to China, where all the schools are filled with an alarming majority of boys.
Where are all the boys?
F. Hurst, I totally agree that it is about making our own choices, and that our liberties end when someone elses rights are violated. I also think we have an obligation to call the authorities if we think someone’s rights are being violated. You are so right,children are under their parents control. That doesn’t give the parents the right to abuse them. Sometimes children do need to be removed for their safety. I sure hope someone would try to help me or my child if they thought we were being abused or neglected. By the way, my first husband was abusive and neglectful. I really wish someone had tried to help me. The first time I went to the police with my baby in arms and a battered face, they said, “Oh, you had a fight with your husband. We’ll write it down. Go home.”Triedto explain to them that there was no fight. My husband was angry and violent, period. It wasn’t until about a year later there was a law passed that if you are visibly hurt and call for help,The state presses charges against the violator. I am so grateful for that law. I feel lucky to be here with my child healthy and whole. No one ever tried to help me. I was the one reaching out for help. Also, I probably had more freedom than most children as my mom left when I was 6 and my dad worked 10-12 hours a day. I decided what was for meals, cooked it, did the laundry, cleaned the house, packed my own lunch, set the alarm to get my brother and myself to school and sunday school on Sunday. No, I was not neglected. We had food, shelter , clothes , extras, and especially a caring father and uncle. If they had known about the abuse , I think they would have killed him, but they did not know. The abuser isolates you from any help you may have. That is why the isolation of this sect should be looked into. If the kids are not being abused, they should be returned. If they are abused, thank God that girl called for help and someone is looking into it.
I would like to know if there are OTHER AREAS in the United States that have cults/ religious group who appear to dress / raise large families/ and shun outsiders?
The areas which come to mind are in Pennsylvania, and Loveland, Colorado. The women in these communities look like they all use the same dress pattern for the homemade clothes and wear their hair long with the little puff style at the top of their forehead. Hair is never cut, and the children (girls) even wear bloomers underneath their dresses for additional modesty. Are there MORE compounds around the United States than the government is willing to admit to?
What I want to know is what happens to the 50 year old women or older (potential grandmothers) of theses cults. I only hear & see pictures of the younger women & young daughters, still living in the compound. Once these supposed wives are beyond breeding age, WHAT HAPPENS TO THEM?? Is there a nursing home compound for the elderly?
There seems to be plenty of old hound dogs after some Fresh young innocent women, which is so sick. WHY, WHY, WHY, when these stories come out to the eyes of public review does it seem to always center on SEX, CONTROL, POWER and $$$$$$?? Some things do not change no matter what century you live in. I can not understand how ANY MOTHER could turn her own flesh and blood into a breeding factory & then the Mother will shortly be put aside for a new sweet young thing? WHAT HAPPENS TO THESE OLDER WOMEN? SURLY THERE MUST BE SOME ANGRY OLDER WOMEN OUT THERE??
Note to Maggie Lineback.
The last line of your story above should be: “Does she exist?”
Nice to know that your lack of objectivity about this story didn’t keep you from plodding along with it.
Posted by Disgusting: “I think that Gary and lifti are both part of the cult. If not they wouldn’t be “condoning” the behavior of those perverted, nasty, controlling, smelly, hypocritical men who abused, raped, molested, and BEAT those young girls. ANYONE who condone’s that type of behavior needs psychological evaulation, and needs to be put on 12-24 month evaluation within their neighborhood to make sure they’re not doing the same thing.”
Gee, I hope you’re never on a jury. You already have the men tried and convicted.
It appears that you seem to know more about the men in this “cult” than anyone else here…perhaps you can enlighten us with more of your “knowledge”.
You also seem to know more about psychological evaluations and “neighborhood evaluations”…are you speaking from experience?
Rebecca G.
Making your own choices…that’s the point of it isn’t it?
Did you make all your own choices as a child? No…your parents did what they thought was right. Often you had little or no input.
Many of the parents here (in San Angelo) are making what they think are their best choices, too. Again, I don’t condone violence or abuse of any kind, but if none of the children’s rights are being violated it is no one’s business as to how they should be raised.
Would you feel it is justified, that if your neighbor has a disagreement with the way you raise your children, that the state step in and take them away from you? How about if they took you AND your children away from your husband, based on a phone call that someone else in your apartment building was abusing their kids?
When I teach my son history, we talk a lot about individual rights and freedoms, and he knows that your right to “pursue happiness” ends where someone else’s rights are violated. Until then, you are completely free to do as you choose. The nanny state has no authority to tell you how to raise your children.
I was just wondering how that young lady got to a phone? Do they have phones in the compound? How did she sneak off without being detected? Why can’t they find her? If she lived all her life this way why would it bother her now? And how would she know the difference?
There is absolutely no excuse for these girls/ women to be molested/forced into these illegal relationships. They have no chance to make any choices for themselves. Sometimes the government does need to step in to insure our safety. I know there are terrible things going on in the “outside” world. Sadly the media advertises the terrible stuff and even glorifies it to a point, but there are wonderful things and wonderful people as well. Not everyone is on drugs or a single parent. Not everyone is sex crazed or lazy. I am a 37 year old wife, mother and nurse. I care for my family, community, and church. I know many more hard working people that have respectful well trained children than not. I wasn’t having sex at 16 or 19. I waited until I was married. Believe it or not that still happens. I’m not sleeping with my neighbor or dressing like a street walker. I’m not perfect either, but I have been able to make my own choices, pick my own husband , my own profession, my own beleifs. I have had the freedom to make my own mistakes and learn from them. These girls should be afforded that liberty as well.God gives us free will. It is a free country. We have a responsibility as well to make sure these girls aren’t being abused.
The Polygamist should change their vocabulary, forget about marriage, the women should just call the fathers of their children “my babies daddy”. I wouldn’t be surprised if the call from the 16 year old girl actually turned out to be a prank, or a set-up by someone with an agenda.
JODY , The 16 year old probably does not exist , And have you taken the time to think that your concept of womanhood is probably as Alien to these homemakers and mothers as your lifestyle is to them .
Do you have children JODY , Or were they aborted to save you from the responsibility of motherhood.
Jody , Please tell us about your STERLING set of morals and the Example you have set to the children who may have touched your life.
Im so sick of you VAPID Liberated type (New Age) Woman who suffer from p—- envy , And spend your worthless lives in a self centered fog of rebellion against your biological purpose .
And the loudest attackers against these Mormon familys are White woman from the big citys who have forgone traditional lifestyles and became either Single parents ,Or childless city or state employees who spend their lives awaiting there next Dating.COM weekend fling.
I see the type every summer , They pass through the sierras on brand new harleys on their way to reno or vegas with their liberated Woman attitudes and that snobby sneer if you happen to look in their direction .
These modern woman have taken jobs that ONLY men used to do , You know the type ! The 120 Lb CHP officer who may be able to give you a ticket but must call for backup to subdue an out of control teen, The Female Firefighter who is allowed to drive the Pumper but is unable to help carry the 3inch hose up the stairs without collapsing and causing injury to the men.
Or the Basic type , The Kept woman , You have seen them im sure , You know the ones who drive the long bed F-350 turbo diesels to the grocery store for 2 bags of grocerys , The ones who you will see in packs of 3 or 4 doing that fast waddling workout walk down the sidewalk at 2-PM and Yapping on their cell phones like they have a life.
The New age White Woman is responsible for the lowest birthrate among all races living in the United States .
Need i say More.
You are aptly named, Disgusting. I found your comments directed at me personally offensive. I don’t know Gary, so I can’t speak for him, he might have been amused by it all, who knows. At any rate, I think you should go back and read my comments and see that I am not condoning anything except the right for people to believe in what they choose to believe in….perhaps had the FLDS people been allowed to do so, no children would have ever come to any harm. I can not say whether what the FLDS chuch believes is true or not, just as I can not say if what you believe, Disgusting, is true or not in the sight of God, but I do believe you have the right to believe it and as long as I see no one being harmed by what you believe, as a patriot, a human being, and a Christian, I will defend your right to believe that way. And, I guess that is the real issue here, people were harmed and laws were broken, According to the FLDS Church they are man made laws, but if we are to all get along we need to abide by them and clearly they didn’t. So, what’s the answer? What is the best way to deal with all of this? Take the whole ragtag bunch and try and bust em up? I don’t think so! See, if that is going to always be the solution for dealing with people we don’t see eye to eye with, then who is going to be next? Who do we get to bust up next? Maybe Disgusting it could be you. How would you like that? Do you or someone in your church spank your kids? That, could be seen as abuse, be careful. The Feds might come for your group next if some kids calls and claims you beat them and the way I feel about you right now, they can have you. I didn’t see or hear a dang thing…
For the record I am not a polygamist nor do I ever intend to be. I do not condone or in anyway support the idea of any girl no matter what her age being forced in to marrying someone she does not want to marry. I wholeheartedly believe it is wrong to engage in sex with underage girls. Having said all that, I do believe that people have a right to practice their religion as they see fit, If their religion allows or promotes polygamy, that is not harming me in any way, I say let them live as they choose. Frankly, I see all of you, who would impose your views on me or anyone else as the reason this group of people has evolved into the group they now are seen as being. If you and your ancestors not persecuted them and had not judged them, perhaps there would have been no need for a 1700 acre ranch for them to hide in, perhaps there would not have been a need for men like Warren Jeffs to resort to the idea of men marrying children. There are many things I see wrong with this FLDS group, and many of you have elaborated on them quite colorfully, but ultimately for me this is not just about the harm that was or is being done to the children, I deplore that and hope that those who perpetuated are caught and prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law, but what bothers me even more is how all of this is being allowed to go down. That children are being taken from parents and already many of you are looking to adopt them like they were puppies from a shut down puppy mill as if you were their saviors. That the “authorities” can go into people’s homes with the vaguest of warrants and with no clue what they are actually looking for or hoping to find. How would you feel if the people of your church were subjected to the same kind of treatment? How would you feel if your children were taken from you just because one girl who may not even know you or be related to you anonymously called the police. Perhaps some of the things I have said have come across of supportive of what the FLDS church stands for or does, but that would be reading me all wrong, I don’t support what they do at all, but I would be just as adamant about respecting their beliefs as I would be of yours if you were Catholic, or Luthern, or some other religion. There is nothing fair about any of this, not to the children most of all, but not to those who lived their lives not hurting anyone and living peacefully in the way they chose to and not to any of us who have to watch all this and who are not only appalled by the revelations coming out of TX, but who might just wonder who will be next…
It surprises me that in these blogs the Mormon religion (The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints) has been substituted for the polygamist group. The Mormon religion disbanded the practice of polygamy over 100 years ago and ex-communicates any member involved in that practice.
I am a Mormon woman, 30 years of age, with 2 children. I live “in the world,” in the city of Boise, ID. My children go to a public school. My husband only has one wife and I was 20 years old when we were married. I work full time outside my home and volunteer my extra time to the community. I go to church on Sundays and I make home made jam and salsa from my own home grown garden. And no, I don’t drive an SUV.
My Mormon family is not so different from other families in my neighborhood. My neighborhood is very diverse. We have Catholic families, Jehovah Witness families, Muslim families, Wicca families and non-religious families. We have families with both parents in the home and some with single parents and a few with children living with their grandparents or foster parents. There are even some who have never been parents.
It is not wrong for us to believe differently from each other nor do I judge my neighbors for their beliefs that differ from mine and I hope they do not judge me. I hope that when my neighbors think of my family they think that we are good people and good neighbors.
Freedom of Religion is one of the most important freedoms that we have and one that makes the USA the great “melting pot” it has become. But when Freedom of Religion crosses the laws of the land something must be done. It may be the religious culture of this polygamist group to marry young girls off as soon as they hit puberty but it is against the law of Texas for girls to marry under 15, even with parent’s permission. One of the Mormon beliefs is “obeying, honoring, and sustaining the law.”
At 15 years old, I might have been old enough and physically mature enough to be a mother but being a mother is more than giving birth and at 15 years old I was not old enough or mentally mature enough to be a mother. I’m glad that I waited until after I was married to have my children.
I hope (and dare I say it – pray) that this situation ends in the best way possible for these families and I have faith in the government that all will be well.
I homeschool my 12-year-old son, and have a list of better than 1745 reasons for not wanting him to go to public school. Many of them related to sexual abuse by predators in the guise of educators.
Yeah, he’s also learning about God, and how today’s secularist society will take you for everything you have if given half a chance.
He also doesn’t own a cell phone, and his internet time is strictly moderated. He is taught to be polite, and respectful. His clothes are conservative, and the only time his pants are so baggy that his underwear shows is…well…never. He’s clever, smart, witty, and shows an uncanny talent for logic. His taste in music runs towards Southern Rock and C&W.
I rarely let him wander the aisles of Wal-Mart on his own, and his friends are strongly vetted.
For those who think I am doing wrong by keeping him from the “outside world”, bring it on.
Keeping all this in mind, don’t you think MAYBE there should be a trial before someone is convicted of abuse?
So far, all there is, are unsubstantiated heresay and rumours.
If there is evidence of abuse, fry the a$$holes responsible for it, and let the rest of the community live their lives however they choose.
Neither my son, nor the federal government, nor the state government, or nosy, pushy people, get to make the decisions on how I should raise him. As long as his rights are not violated, then I get final word in EVERYTHING that happens in his life until he reaches the age of emancipation.
Disgusting:
Are you really sure that Gary and Iifti are condoning any abuse? Should they be taken in for questioning now? After all, anybody who has any questions at all in this case obviously must be a reprobate.
I think that Gary and lifti are both part of the cult. If not they wouldn’t be “condoning” the behavior of those perverted, nasty, controlling, smelly, hypocritical men who abused, raped, molested, and BEAT those young girls. ANYONE who condone’s that type of behavior needs psychological evaulation, and needs to be put on 12-24 month evaluation within their neighborhood to make sure they’re not doing the same thing.
Thank you for making a boring afternoon interesting. Everyone is entitled to an opinion, but there are ways to get yours across and still be respectful to others. Gary, you need to learn how to be respectful.
lutheran:
“It is about a religious denomination that preaches false theology. Don’t be opposed to it simply because you think it doesn’t promote women’s rights. Be opposed to it because at its very fundamental core, it is leading both men ANd women astray eternally.”
Is it the government’s place to police theology? I don’t think so. The Constitution agrees with me too. You see, this is not an individual issue. It involves the exercise of government power.
Doesn’t it bother you at all that the CPS drag 400+ children and 133+ adults out of their homes and carry them away on Baptist Church buses, as if taking them to an altar call, using government power to do it? Now I know that there was a call from a 16 year old and they need to investigate. The law must have its way. But I’ll tell you this: the CPS, police, and Baptist Church had better be right. There had better be a lot of abuse going on to take as many people as they did into custody.
Gary is an idiot. I can’t believe I’ve wasted my time reading his posts.
-Houston, TX
Betsy, you talk about these girls being married at a young age as if it’s something new. Girls have been getting married at the age of 14 since the medieval era, the Middle Ages, and even the Reformation. Girls who get married young can do just fine. They can survive. They can have children. A few may even learn to love their husbands. Most likely don’t. But this is not about female empowerment. It is about a religious denomination that preaches false theology. Don’t be opposed to it simply because you think it doesn’t promote women’s rights. Be opposed to it because at its very fundamental core, it is leading both men ANd women astray eternally.
Is it true that the Mormon Cult, Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, are using federal government developed technology, such as, high frequency sound transmission, RF and microwave “sound”, lasers (both hand held and located in SUV, trucks, cars, etc), etc to harass and harm persons. Is it true that these attacks are being made because of some perceived “insult” to a member of the Mormons? Is it true that these actions are in violation of federal and state laws?
Is it true that Mormon Cult use illegal means to enter homes and automobiles, etc to plant various high technology listening devices and “sound” generating devises (both at night and day, because it is difficult, if not impossible, to track the direction from where the “sound” is being generated ). Is it true that Mormons do not steal or break anything when they enter the property so it appears that no Mormon was in the property and law enforcement agencies cannot prove Mormons were there?
Is it true that Mormon Cult plant “tracking” devises on cars and follow the vehicles / persons onto military reservations and to other geographic locations where the local Mormons take up the harassment and harming of persons, thus making it an interstate matter?
Is it true that Mormon Cult use “sleep depravation”, sound harassment, etc to work their will on persons who have been selected to be “shunned “ by the “Mormon Brothers” and the local “Mormon Membership”?
Is it true that Mormon Cult maintain clandestine internet web sites where Mormons place photos of persons to be “shunned” that the “Mormon Brothers” and Local Mormon Membership have selected? Is it true that the Mormon Cult solicit persons who are not Mormons to participate in this “shunning” by showing them these internet web sites as proof that a person has committed some act that, though not proven by law or due process, the person should be “shunned” for?
Is it true that such actions by the Mormon Cult are against Federal Law and all
State laws? When is the US Justice System going to do something about these “Domestic Terrorist”?
Once upon a time in America a person attack by a Cult, Organization, etc would have the United States of Americas resources come to his aide.
I have three daughters, all in college, ages 19, 20 and 22. Two are studying abroad this semester. None of them are even THINKING about getting married until they graduate. This is their choice. They have worked hard to get scholarships and are paying their own way with financial aid.
These poor girls that were “stuck” in the compound may not realize how truly stuck they were. But they were not getting the oppertunity to make a life for themselves. And I can tell you, for 100% sure that when girls are 14, 15 and 16 they may look like adults, but they are NOT! Just because these girls have been living like this up until now, doesn’t mean they should continue!
No, no, no, it’s not right, in anybodies book, it should NOT be right to make a child of 14, 15, 16 (ANY AGE) enter into a marriage against their will or even if they are willing. They should be focused on school, friends, sports maybe a good hobby. But not about raising babies and keeping husbands satisfied!
We can only hope and pray that this gets sorted out with as little suffering for the children as possible.
This entire debaucle is what false theology will get you. When men like Joseph Smith and Warren Jeffs falsely presume to know the mind of God, people are led astray, hurt, and, in the end, left without hope.
There’s nothing wrong with marrying young, or working hard, or having ten children, or reading as a family instead of watching TV, or wearing old-fashioned clothes. But when sinful men start ordering that kind of lifestyle, saying that lives not lived in accordance with those rules will be condemned by God, it is our duty as Christians and as their neighbors to guide and correct them.
They lived better then anyone in the getto. Plus no crime. They all looked in good health. Just let them go home. Texas is kinda of a crazy state anyway. Bush and Johnson came from there.
In my mind, this is just a convenient place for child molester’s to do their dirties! Just like the Priests in the cathlic church. They always find a way to infiltrate and play the part.
Religion has been a handy place to do it I guess, as it’s going on in a lot of different faiths.
It breaks my heart that the babies have to be the one’s to suffer.
The author of this blog is uneducated.
“Nickle Mine” is a community and school name, not a town. A village if anything; but the address is Lancaster, PA.
Also, the Amish are not idiots who are media-free. They can most certainly and DO, watch TV, read papers and so on. They just are not “known” to own TV’s. They do not have electricity in their homes, but their business’ often do and even some barns. They also can watch TV at an “English” friends home (many English and Amish live amongst each the other in Lancaster, PA).
So, I am not sure of the Texas issue, but to compare it to an Amish shooting is ridiculous, even in terms of the media hanging around to exploit it.
I differ, it is less that the community can’t understand the media, it is that the author of the blog is too ignorant to even make a call on what either community is “thinking” or understanding. It’s ASSumptions, and this is par for the course what happens when people just want to banter but have nothing to say.
This entire blog basically says “I know nothing but let’s discuss IF”….
Shameful.
How does this community afford all these kids? What about the money trail? I bet you
will not find law abiding citizens when it comes to taxes. I am sure the young girl
will not be found. One more thing, I am a mother of three teens and not one is pregnant and
I am raising them in our world.
Most of the (DINGBATS) posting here have never even been to UTAH , And have no basis from which to make intelligent comments.
I have lived in Saint George Utah and i have witnessed first hand the Mormon lifestyle , They are hard working and loving parents .
Their children are clean and well mannered and taught in Mormon schools to love and respect their Country , Unlike the schools where the (DINGBAT) children are taught that GAY is OK and not allowed to recite the pledge because of the Under GOD verse.
During the time i lived in UTAH i met a family in which the father had 3 wifes , 8 sons, 12 daughters .
This man owns a large construction company and builds the finest homes i have ever seen , He leaves for work with his sons at 5 AM six days a week and returns home at six PM .
When this man or his sons give you their word and a handshake there is no need for a contract .
None of his wifes or children seemed abused or maltreated in any way .
I suggest you take a close look at your own Lazy Spoiled Godless out of control brats before you point your prozac soaked fingers at people you know nothing about.
Wow. I am AMAZED at some of these comments. I live in Utah, and seeing the Polygs at the Wal-Mart or Costco is not all that unusual. It doesn’t matter what anyone thinks of their “Different Culture” and all that BUNK. Polygamy is ILLEGAL. And the crap going on in these compounds is not a matter of a bunch of adults of sound mind making the decision to do something illegal. It is a matter of CHILDREN being abused, forced into marriage and sex. If it were as clear cut as a bunch of over 18 adults making a decision to break the law and be Polygamists that would be one thing. But when you’re forcing 12, 13 year old children to marry and have sex just because they are physically able. It’s sick and it’s wrong and the men deserve to be in jail, and the children deserve to be free to live a normal life if possible. And the women, hopefully they can go through counceling and be free of the cult.
Why is it that everyone seems to think that marrying so young was common in the United States? Just because it was normal in Texas and SOME other places in the US, it doesn’t mean it was commonplace. Seriously people look it up. READ! You will find that most girls married when they were OLDER teens (in US history). My point being, girls typically didn’t marry (and obviously still don’t) in their young teens in mainstream US culture. Heck, I don’t believe the Amish marry that young.
Moving on…
These girls are too young to be marrying and having children. They aren’t baby factories, they are human beings. If that wasn’t bad enough, they are being FORCED into these marriages. Sorry, there is no way to explain away their way of life. It would be one thing if they were just “different” (like the Amish), but that’s not what we are dealing with here.
A small child sitting in the back of a car while the parent sits in front smoking away on cigarette after cigarette has absolutely no choice but to inhale the fumes. Growing up, the child sees no problem with smoking until he/she becomes educated enough to understand the dangers of second hand smoke and smoking. The key words here are “choice” and “educated.” These children living in that sick society have had the option of choice taken away from them, and they are being educated that it is the normal thing to do. Therefore, these children will grow up believing that this lifestyle is normal and may continue on this cycle of mental poverty indefinately until someone steps in and “chooses” what is right for them. That little child in the back seat thinks every mommy smokes and every little kid coughs like he/she does!
To Penny:
Penny it was common to marry young when I was young in Texas. If you were 21 and not married people worried you would be an old maid. I married at 15 to my husband who was 18. We will soon be married 49 years. We have 2 children, 7 grandchildren, 3 great-grandchildren. I had my first child at 17. Our parents signed for us to marry in 1959 when it was legal for you to marry at 15 with a parents signature in Texas. My mother married at 16 and had me at 17 and had 4 children and was married 64 years and has many grandchildren. My grandmother married my grandfather at 14 and he was 21 and she had 10 children and was married until he died at 65 and never married again. They had too many grandchildren to count. They had a loving marriage and her heart was broken when he died. At 15 I went to work for $ .75 an hour. Our marriages were by choice and we were happy. My husbands great gradmother was 16 and she married his great-grandfather in his 60’s and they had 10 kids. I pray these girls are treated with respect and their sensibilities for their religion are considered and that any man raping or abusing any of them will soon be in jail. I pray these teenage mothers will not have their babies taken from them. May they truly find caring help.
Gary talks of brainwashing, he shows he is juvenile and perhaps brainwashed himself; Ifti comes from another culture, so I will give her a pass, but 15 year old girls should be allowed to be 15 year old girls, not mothers.
It is obvious many of these girls, even though raised from birth to accept older men as husbands, sense something is wrong about it.
How can we help? How can we, who have had our hearts broken by the tragedy of this cult, even begin to step in and help these young women and children? I know it is far too soon to for any permanent solution to this. Could you offer some links or suggestions on how we can step in to show that we, the public, are not the enemy? Unlike natural disasters, no amount of monetary donation will help to rebuild their lives. Simply put…it will take love. Please keep us posted from the front lines of this battle and let us know when, where and how we can help.
TX DFPS says it now has all the children from the compound. What happens to them next is the big question. There’s a hearing about it next week. Also, an affidavit was released yesterday that gave more details on the initial complaint and what authorities found when they arrived. I’m trying to get it posted on our site so you can read it for yourself. At the very least, I’ll try to copy a few paragraphs from it so you have a sense of what it says.
我曾在电视上亲眼看着双子星在浓烟中坍塌,上千人在顷刻丧生,报应啊!谁说世间的事物没有因果呢?我想问问,美国的立国之本,那青天正义的独立宣言说的是什么,人心真的理解吗?那钱币都印着信神,有多少人心中有神的仁慈呢?人们用解救的字眼表达对人类选择权的公然侵犯,人性的虚伪和骄傲宣泄到了极点。中国有句俗话:人是活的。人为何不去用心去纠正法律的疏漏,反而以死了的人制定的陈旧法律去拘禁现实活着的人呢?美国每况愈下,就是死在这迂腐教条,骄傲残暴的刽子手里。我告诉你们,如果你们信神,你们就跪下来祈祷,你们不光要敬畏神,更要理解神的仁爱。你们要停止犯罪,停止以一切的借口迫害人类纯真的信仰。
Do we realize that this compound is only a few years old? Most of these children were born in other parts of the country. Surely some of these women have a college education, since there are teacher’s and nurses among them. They must have received their education from accredited institutions. This would have given them plenty of exposure to the world around them. Perhaps some of them moved into the compound by choice. If the state of Texas is giving them an opportunity to escape from a lifestyle that is abusive, then help them out, but don’t asume that all of them feel that way. Will those women who want to return be free to do so when this investigation is over? Read the history of the ‘53 raid on Short Creek and you will find that this type of action does not wipe out the practice of polygamy, it only forces these people deeper into the closet. In the modern world of 2008 we need to find a better way to deal with polygamists than trying to force them to see things our way. Let abuse be handled by the laws that exsist in America today.
The proof of abuse is lacking for the majority of these children. It is reported that these so called “neglected” children are a picture of health. Is there equal justice across the state of Texas? Then let’s find every underage pregnant girl, put her in foster care, charge her parents with neglect, and jail the perpetrator. Where in this world can these women and children be promised safety from the ills of society? It seems that the Goverment’s solution is far worse than the problem its self. Are Civil Rights still protected in America or do minorty groups not count? Where there is abuse let it be handled on a case by case bases. If polygamy were not against the law, there would be no need for secrecy, which can breed abuse. Just because one polygamist is an abuser does not make all poygamists abusers. I know many people who enjoy living this life style who are no more bainwashed than you or me. Perhaps it’s time for Americans to change the antique law against polygamy, because it is not going away.
Please tell me ,How did this go this long without the state stepping in. Are people blind in Texas???? Didn’t they wonder what was going on back there. No your right,its none of the states of Texas concern, but why is it after one phone call. It probably cost that 16 yr. old her life. I sure hope not. May those people get the help they need.
Gary, you’re a whacko. Relax buddy. I bet you lay awake at night and dream up all kinds of conspiracy theories. You’re arguments and insults are pathetic.
Jay, don’t speak for my children. You wrote, “our girls”. Speak for yourself and your family. Not mine.
Polygamy is wrong. Incest is wrong (when proven). Child rape is wrong (when proven). That’s really all there is to it.
Rebecca…your comments are refreshing…as a father of two daughters that are quite close to your age, I salute you.
And to anyone attempting to hold any sort of debate with this…Gary guy, don’t bother. Based on the remarks, spelling, and grammar, an IQ in the general ballpark of 25 or so is my guess…or just someone wanting to get their “five minutes of internet fame”. It’s called a “debate”, not an invitation to blabber some incoherent dribble that is asinine and hilarious (by the way, that is NOT a compliment) all at the same time.
On second thought, maybe keep pouring it out there. My office staff is getting a hearty laugh at your expense.
Now, back to the subject matter….
I wonder about the acquisition of the warrants, and what backs their issuance, no doubt. However, I have strong opinions about girls practically being “given to older men” at the breach of puberty. How disgusting…there are laws that should have been enforced prior to now.
That’s not religion, that’s “religious abuse”.
I mean, if it’s that easy to just run a “con” and scream “freedom of religion!! I’m being persecuted for my beliefs”… I really don’t know what else to say. I just sit here, and laugh and cringe all at the same time.
Thank you Rachel, Rebecca, Penny, and Tamara.
Crissy… I hope to God you don’t have teenaged daughters.
Rape is rape no matter if you are 13, 14, 15 or 50. And Ifti, this is NOTHING like the Jews being led to the death camps!!
you disgust me. How dare you make reference to minority groups as “mogrels!” what gives you that right? You’ve just ruined everything for everyone. Thanks a bunch.
GARY,
learn how to spell.
PS personally, I don’t believe in getting married underage. Of course, you may disagree–after all, you seem to be endorsing the abuse of minors. For the record, I’m still a minor. And so you can shut up about the husband and SUV crap. What’s that got to do with anything? I thought we were discussing the morality of the action that’s taken place, not picking fights.
PENNY PENNY , LOOK around you , Do you actually believe your white children will be treated like Brothers and Sisters in your Perfect Multi-Cultural world .
The blacks and the hispanics Represent 78% of the prison population in the continental United States .
LOL , I guess you will not WAKE up until you lose a loved one to the MONGREL THUGS.
BUY a gun.
REBECCA. Shut your drooling mouth , Go was your SUV and take care of your Husband before he leaves you for that fiesty little brunett.
Gary, what the hell are you talking about? How about you try to make sense next time you post something. Stop trolling for reactions and grow up. If you want to have an educated and logical discussion about this, that is fine. I am all for it, regardless of your stance on the issue.
also, everything you’ve written leads me to the conclusion that you WANT these girls to continue being subjected to abuse. What kind of person ARE you? You know, I think that you’re whole freedom-of-religion shpiel is going a bit far. Like Penny said, sometimes you really need to draw a line.
TO JODY,
VERY GOOD RESEARCH JODY. I WILL GO TO YOUR WEBSITE AND CHECK IT OUT! ALSO…..ORGANIZATIONS THAT ‘HIDE THINGS’ OR ‘CO-ERCE’ PEOPLE, SHOULD SEND A RED FLAG UP SOME WHERE IN A PERSONS MIND! IF YOU GO AGAINST THE JEHOVAH’S WITNESS RELIGION THEY ‘KICK YOU OUT’! IT DOESN’T MATTER IF YOUR 15,16 OR WHAT! IF YOU DON’T CONFORM, THEN YOU’RE BUTT IS GONE. SAME WITH THESE POLIGAMISTS, SAME WITH ANY OTHER CULTS. CONFORM, OR ESLE!!!!!!
PENNY, I dare say that you have no Voice or Anger with a Gay pride Parade or the closing of a Boy Scout Camp because the new Owners are gay, And the boy scouts are not part the GAY lifestyle.
PENNY , you would Embrace our Enemys And Point your feeble finger at your NEIGHBOR for another day of life.
Gary, quit being so juvenile. Why don’t you take a more intellectual approach instead of being incoherent and extremely disrespectful? If you want to pick a fight, go somewhere else.
PENNY , You are correct .
How can anybody defile a group of 1000 men who work every day in the hot UTAH sun and earn a living for their familys , Plumbers -Masons- Bankers-Clerks-Policemen-Doctors-Janitors.
I guess the IDEA that their is an area in which White People still remain pure and true to their HERITAGE scares the hell out of you.
As a seventeen-year-old growing up in the so-called “outside world,” I’m very disappointed in the gross exaggerations the past comments have held. I certainly fit into the parallel age group to these girls from the ranch, but contrary to common misconceptions neither my friends nor myself are the promiscuous, drug-abusing, alcoholic, suicidal, disaffected people the youth of today are depicted as being. And my friends and I aren’t the only ones - there are millions of other teenagers who don’t engage in such debaucherous behavior. Sure, there are probably loads of self-destructive people my age in this country; I don’t deny this. But just as you argue that it is unfair to make generalizations about the ranch community in question, it is equally unjust to make generalizations about the “outside world.” I believe that this world has many wonderful things to offer, and the good shouldn’t be overshadowed by the bad. I think that history has proven this particular religious sect to have violated several important laws, and it is only rational for the police to take action upon recieving notification of unethical (and unlawful) behavior taking place in a community with a known reputation for these behavior. While I do believe that it would have been best to remove the men from the compound in order for the victims to be subjected to less trauma and stress, the fact that action is being taken is something to be grateful for. These girls cannot be compared by any standards to the common youth of today; they have only ever known a certain lifestyle. When they were ebing married to men over three times their age, they probably saw it as something normal. However, inherent in all humans is a central code of ethics that tells you when something is really wrong–when you constantly live in fear and sometimes even pain. These girls probably have more emotinal baggage than the average American teen! I’m not suggesting that they fully assimilate into modern American culture (they probably would never be able to fully do so), but I believe that outside intervention is necessary in mending the many physical and psychological wounds. Instead of bickering with each other pettily and using low-blow insults, we should all send out our best wishes and hopes (if you have a religious belief that includes prayer, that works too) to these children as they attempt navigating these tumultuous times and the times to come. And yes, they are children: physical development doesn’t make you any more of an adult. It’s internal development that determines maturity and growth. Maybe some fourteen- to seventeen-year-olds can be considered adults, but once again, don’t make umbrella generalizations like that. It’s unfair and causes misinformed opinions and decisions.
Penny.
Perhaps a communist lifestyle would suit these teenage girls far better than the MORMON life.
We could ship all of the female children off to PEKING and have an auction , Or we could send them all off to southern africa for MACHETE practice, Or possibly San Fransisco where they can be taught to worship the nipple ring .
What EXACTLY do you want for these children PENNY.
Dear Maggie,
I pray ‘that girl’ is found, and that she isn’t killed by these pedophile controlling men. She may be hidden some where in that huge compound. I feel ‘those controlling men’ aren’t going to release her easily as she ‘exposed their non-biblical rotten ugly dirty ways’. Jesus said: ‘A man will have only 1 wife’. What they have done over the centuries is lawfully wrong, and why hasn’t the LAW OF OUR LAND stepped in and done some thing way before this? It’s legally ‘WRONG’ to have more than 1 WIFE! Let alone, underage children! I pray the authorities find her. But, I feel she is NOT with the 401 children they fo